The Asexuality Handbook


Thank you for taking the time to visit The Asexuality Handbook. My aim with this site is to provide easy access to information and advice about asexuality that is understandable, deep, and well referenced.

Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn't experience sexual attraction towards anyone. It's similar to how a heterosexual person does not experience sexual attraction to their own gender, but applied to everyone. Asexuality is also an umbrella term for people that fall between asexuality and other orientations.

For introductory overviews of asexuality please see What is asexuality? and The a-spectra. You can also explore further topics in the list below or in the menu bar. I hope that together these resources will help shed some much-needed light on an orientation that has stayed in the dark for far too long.

Reference pages

The a-spectrum

Asexuality in society


Advice and FAQs

Similar resources

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I also extend my thanks to:

  • the Ace Community Survey Team, without which we would be in the dark for many of the statistics quoted throughout this site;

  • the a-spec community for all their love and support;

  • and you for taking the time and interest to read.

This site will always be a work in progress, so if you have any suggestions for how it can be improved don't hesitate to get in touch and I'll see what we can do. You can fill out a feedback form here.